Sunday, February 21, 2010

DESIRES FROM THE ONE YOU LOVE...


Desire...
A word, a thought, a need and an expectation... that either your heart or your mind has.
Sometimes they are full of thoughts but sometimes they just blank n only for sake of moment{even you can also laugh on them later}...
Some you tell everybody... some to few but some to none {the secret ones}...
It is a like deep sea... which could take you deeper an deeper or as a sky which is just limitless...
It is sort of unseen power inside you which demands from you only...

Sometimes I get to listen from few people that desires can be controlled... but I ask... why and for what?

WELL...
It can be for anything or anyone and can be from anyone too.
You desire something from someone only when you know that the thing could be provided by that particular person only. Like parents have some desires from their children, that they will reach that peak of success that everyone should feel proud for them as well as they set a milestone for the generation next. A child has a expectation that his/her parents will support him always. All in all the expectations or desires are from the one whom you love.
This is one form of love but there is another form of love also... to be with your BELOVED...

Where you have someone who let to believe that you are the most important person for him/ her, and you also feel that your beloved is the most important one for you... this feeling is something beyond the imaginations and explanations... these are just to feel and feel good {as per people say who are in love}. And this is also true that having these expectations are quite natural... and they get fulfilled also... SO NICE NA...

But, time dosen't remains same... sometimes, when your desires are not completed or you have to put your expectations into a sack... may be it's either your extra desire for which your beloved is not comfortable or anything... then... then what happens? You scream, you shout, you get angry... and... the one whom you love most n who is the most loving n understanding person of your life seems to be as a person who don't understand you and even who lends you to think that either you are good enough for each other or not?
For once or twice or even thrice, it is o.k. You or your beloved tackles n handles the situation but when it repeats certainly then, then a time comes when your decision to be with that most important person seems to be wrong...
Is this the right way to love? Or to respect this great feeling for which Great Lovers like Romeo-Juliet, Heer-Raanjha, Sohni-Mahiwaal... and many more are known to be?

So let yourself to desire and be desirable... but be understandable also... that's what the LOVE is all about...

Think twice before shouting or getting apart{the worst you can do} from this great feeling... cause you are lucky to be in love... from whom who never experienced this awesome feeling...

14 comments:

Shailesh K said...

A good personal insight about desires.This reminds me of desires some of my relatives having for me that I would become an IAS officer hehe.

POOJA... said...

thank u sir...

Yashwant said...

well its very well said that why to controll desire.....desire can never be controlled ....good to hear yer heart.....keep sharing....

Yashwant said...

but pooja always remember first you deserve n then desire for it........this will make your desire more n more obsessive...

POOJA... said...

it is on justifications... n desires can never be justified sir... as per my experiences...
THANK YOU SO MUCH...

Sumit said...

hmmm Great Pooja ji
I think u have putted your deep feelings behind this word 'DESIRE'. Gud Job..
As i think
Desire is taking shape and adjusted according to person height's. Like i am capable to buy maruti 800 and i desire for ferari...
Can i buy ferari....ya i may buy Swift Dezire...any how
big debate pooja ji..

Sumit Miglani

POOJA... said...

sumit ji to desire n deserve are the different things... thts why it is cleared that ur mind or heart can desire for anything...

sanjay said...

good

(LIFE ROCKS!!!!) said...

Good one pooja.. very well written !!!

alice in wonderland said...

good & inspiring

POOJA... said...

Sanjay,{life rocks}, alice in wonderland

Thank you so much...

Sumit said...

hmmm yeh huyi na baat
Agreed mam...
Hands up...
these r two different things...

POOJA... said...

hehehehehee...
no need to hands up... just clearing my view...
well...
thank yo once again...

Shashi said...

very good explanation . Let me tell u meaning of desire . Desire needs just two things . Wish for which we have means .Wish plus means . It can be fulfilled if we have means or sources . But if we have both another desire arises . Whole life we have desires but all cannot be fulfilled in one life . That is life ! It should be enjoyed with want we have and what we can have with limited sources . Never mind ! you are a good writer .